I was apprehensive about this at first, but he nudged me into speaking to the men who would message us. I didn’t know what to expect, I was still worried I would come off ass too clumsy or shy or just plain weird. Are you prepared to be open and honest every step of the way? Communication is key. Without communication, none of this would have happened in the first place. Of course, having the kind of sex most people only get to fantasise about didn’t hurt either. Friday

And while this is not always the case, one thing that you want to rule out before going any further is that he isn't cheating on you. In his opinion, “wife sharing is slightly different from a swinger's lifestyle. In wife sharing, more than one couple have sexual relationships with the wife of different couples.” Before I veer further into the topic, there are a few things I want to advert your mind to, and they are as follows: most people usually take wife-sharing to mean the same thing as wife-swapping, but this is totally wrong. What Is Wife Sharing & The Psychology Behind It? http://l.yimg.com/eb/ymv/us/img/hv/photo/movie_pix/paramount_pictures/beowulf/angelina_jolie/beowulf2.jpg How it impacted her relationship:“I’ve never been tempted to stray outside of my relationship by having an affair. Swinging takes care of all of my sex needs. I really feel that it strengthens every relationship. I don’t view sex as something that you only have with someone you love. Sex is recreational. I think every boyfriend I’ve had has felt the same way. Along the way, I started filming myself with various people and decided to take my swinging/exhibitionist/kinky lifestyle and make it full time. I guess you could say that swinging has enriched my relationships and also enriched my life.”

If your sex life with your wife is so unsatisfying to you, you need to ask yourself: has your wife lost interest in having sex with you because you keep pushing the group thing? Do you think this has turned her off? OK, so you’re ready to tell your partner you’ve been thinking about something that turns you on and you want to share it with them. Go for it! This is where I once again reiterate how grateful I am that I had my man by my side every step of the way. He was not only supportive and kind, but he was also the one to take the initiative in this whole thing. I like your theory... maybe it applies to some people. It certainly doesn't apply to me, although I had wished my ex-boyfriend could have changed because he was the best lover I ever had! so then, this makes it important to devise a less harmful method of correcting our partner's bad habits by employing the wife sharing method.

When wife sharing, it’s important to always practice safe sex. No matter how decent you, your partner, or the people with whom you are wife sharing may be, when engaging in sexual activity outside of your relationship, there is always a risk of health complications. Two heads are better than one, and this is the exact case with wife sharing as each partner has a wider chance of being supported not only financially but also psychologically by the third-party partners. Your husband sounds like a gem. When you told him no, I don't really want that, he NEVER brought it up again. That is a man who can TALK to his wife about fantasies, sex but also RESPECT what she said. Maybe once it was out there he had a little thought and decided in his own mind that sharing you is not something he really wants. Who would’ve thought that opening up our sex life to other people would make us even more turned on for each other? I’ve Become Hooked On Being Shared (We’ve Tried It Again) Ever find yourself visualizing steamy scenarios to get yourself turned on? You're far from the only one. Sexual fantasies are very common and very normal. "All forms of fantasy, kinky or otherwise, are a healthy part of sexuality," sex expert Ava Cadell, Ph.D., tells SELF.

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Being psychologically balanced in the opinion of PositivePsychologyProgram has been said to come with few but potential benefits such as improvement of well-being, promotion of working memory, mindfulness act as a buffer against the depressive symptoms associated with discrimination, and increase in set point of one’s happiness. ​4. Free World However, at some point, I started realizing that I never truly lived out any of my sexual fantasies. I am a kinky person at heart, but in real life, I can get awkward and shy. I only ever slept with two guys, one of which is my husband. He had no problems with my husband being a part of it and watching. His understanding tone and impressive physique ultimately convinced us that he was the right guy to try this with for the first time. He wasn’t needy like any of the other men we talked to, not immature or inexperienced. He had an air of quiet assuredness about him that I couldn’t resist. Some very deep friendships can develop between two couples who are both happy in their separate relationships yet open to exploring each other intimately and sexually. We quite understand that in traditional marriage, sex practice by any of the partners with anyone other than his or her partner is tantamount to cheating. But when partners could go out with a third party with his or her mind at rest and with no thoughts of being accused of cheating afterward, infidelity becomes less of an issue, and in turn, this development will reduce one of the grounds a marriage can break down irretrievably. 4 4. Develops Communication

I don't feel I forced her to do anything she didn't want to. She had sex with Deb all on her own. She agreed that getting together with my friend was exciting, safe, discreet. She was so aroused during our sessions with him. It was her idea to get together with him the following night and again after we were married. All she had to do was say no. If there was something she wanted to try and I really didn't want to, I'd say no. Not only that, but we were also really horny for each other. Our hookup infused energy into our sex life, something new and different than what we’ve had so far, and we couldn’t keep our hands off each other. I was kinkier than ever before, and my husband reveled in it. I would get turned off if my husband kept bringing this up, to be honest. I told him this wasn't negotiable, and I finally compromised with him and went with him to a nudist resort so he would have the opportunity to look at other women. Thank goodness all the women weren't body beautiful - lol. Even with my extra 20 pounds, I felt comfortable at the nudist resort. Jealousy however little it may be that emanates from seeing one’s wife being sexed by another man can be used as a motivation or an improvement over the man’s sex life.Humans are made of different stuff, and as such we can never be the same. This cuts across our reasoning, the perception of things around us, and the extent of our tolerance. And this has further gone to the fact that we humans are not designed by our creator to be perfect. we will always have differences as long as we associate with others. While my partner relaxed by the pool getting to know a new lady friend, I ran into a man who asked to join me in my room for some playtime. You simply type in his name and location, and it will give you a ton of information as to what he's been up to when you aren't together.