If you haven’t already found your prostate, it’s about 2 to 3 inches inside your anus on the anterior wall. It is shaped almost like a walnut. You can find various tutorials online that show you how to locate it. Essentially, the Maximus Trident is a much stiffer version of the Helix. As such, this bad boy is designed for people who are fairly experienced with prostate play. I can think of a few more things that make this a great anal pleasuretool, but those were the most important. And one thing I don’t love The WeVibe Vector has particularly strong perineum vibrations, so it’s one of the best sex toys for people who love that combination of internal and external anal pleasure.

However, we also need to bear in mind that many women have problems climaxing from internal stimulation alone (I know I don’t always manage to). There are all sorts of prostate massagers, including ones with rumbly vibrations, variable speeds, and remote controls. If you’re shopping for your first, choose one that has a rounded end, which is gentler on the rectum, Carol Queen, PhD, a sex educator with Good Vibes, tells SELF. It should also be on the smaller, slimmer side, so you can get used to the feeling of anal insertion. She recommends starting with a toy that has about the girth of a finger and then optionally moving up from there. waterproof, you can take this into the bath or shower for some wet fun, whether you’re flying solo or with a partner. My only complaint? The “come hither” motion can make the Loki Wave slide out your butt if you’re not careful… ironically making it “go away”. 13. Calexotics RollerBall Vibrating Anal Probe – Rollerball anus probeYou’re greeted by the sparkling silver Pure Wand laid on top of silky pink satin cloth. It almost feels like unboxing a royal crown jewel!

This vibrating anal device comes with specific sections to stimulate the perineum, urethra, penis, and testicles. Its aspirations put some of these other prostate massagers to shame, but bear in mind that it doesn’t fit a lot of guys comfortably.If you want non-vibrating, nothing can beat Aneros’s Helix Syn Trident . It’s #1 on this list for a reason – it once made me have a continuous orgasm for 5 minutes. I still remember it vividly to this day. If you ever need to sterilise the wand it’s very easy. You can just put it in some boiling water and as it’s steel, it will be fine. If it gets a rainbow colour after doing that just put the wand in a dishwasher and that should remove any colouring. Careful with chemical cleaners on the Njoy Wand Once I got used to the smaller end, I switched it around and tried playing with the bigger bulb. It was certainly MORE INTENSE and felt TIGHTER, but it’s not for everyone. Anyway, the smaller tip is enough to make you go crazy.

It’s so easy to clean. Seriously, this is the lowest maintenance toy I own. After a session, I just take it to the kitchen sink and wash it off with a mild soap and some hot water. Alternatively, I’ve put it in the dishwasher with the rest of the dinner plates! Works like a charm. Just don’t use an abrasive cleaner, for obvious reasons. After you have mastered the basic technique, you can then introduce more vigorous play into your prostate with longer thrusts. The Njoy is double-ended (perfect for tantalizing both the P-Spot and the G-Spot) and the two heads differ slightly in width. There’s a large end, measuring a width of 25.4mm, and a smaller end with a width of 38.1mm. The smaller end is particularly good for nervous newbies and those who aren’t keen on heavy penetration. Once you’re comfortable with the feel of that part, you can move on to the wider end of the toy. I love using the pure wand while it’s a little cold because at the moment it’s summer here in France. It depends on how much you cool the wand down first but it doesn’t take too long for it to warm up once it’s inside my body.

Verdict

Lubricate the smaller tip of the Wand because you don’t want to make it painful by starting with the bigger end. ( Trust me, I’ve been there, and it isn’t sexy.) For added measure, also apply some lube to your hole. The big end of the Njoy Pure Wand is where the magic is at in my opinion! I was actually surprised at how easy it was to insert the big end. I’m an advanced user of prostate toys but I still don’t play with big toys very often. The larger end of the Pure Wand certainly requires a small push but the shiny steel surface glides so easily inside that I didn’t find it painful at all. One of the ends of the product must be carefully inserted into the vagina or anus to find the G or P points. Depending on preferences, it is possible to perform translational, "tapping" movements. Holding on to the other end of the toy, you can change the angle of inclination and the depth of penetration.

At 4.4 inches long, this is also a very decent size, and the velvety silicone exterior feels sexy and luxurious. It’s like the Egyptian Cotton of sex toys. 11. SquarePegToys Kidney Prostate Stimulator – Huge prostate plug Just make sure you don’t tap out! Get it? You’re welcome. 19. CHEVEN Thrusting Prostate Massager – Thrusting anal sex toy The smooth texture: Another plus of the stainless steel: It creates way less friction than a silicone toy would, and that makes the experience hella smooth. "I had a baby, and I tore while giving birth," says DiMartino. After that, they were nervous about having any kind of penetrative sex because they didn’t want anything to catch on their scar. "The Pure Wand was the first thing I started using again for penetration after giving birth," they recall. "The weight of the stainless steel actually helped break up some of the scar tissue through internal massage, and it was so smooth that I didn’t need to worry about friction that could cause further tearing." I wasn’t particularly into G-spot play when I first started working at The Pleasure Chest," says DiMartino. "But then a bunch of coworkers were all really hyping [the Pure Wand] up to me, saying, 'You need to try this thing.'" Now, DiMartino is the person hyping the Pure Wand to friends, sexual partners, and pretty much anyone who walks into The Pleasure Chest. Remember, penetration works best when you’re relaxed. It’s not about lying down, opening your legs, and inserting your dildo. Like any type of penetrative sex, the experience should be arousing, stirring, and pleasurable. Get out that lube, get up close and friendly with your clit too, and you will more than likely enjoy the magic provided by the Njoy Pure Wand.The best thing about the Njoy Pure Wand is that it is utterly genderless. Anyone can use this toy. Whether you have a G spot, a P spot or you just want a weapon to put beside your bed, the Njoy Pure Wand has some serious appeal for you. As I mentioned in the opening of this article, I mostly see articles of people reviewing the Njoy Pure Wand as a G spot toy. In my own review of the Pure Wand, I have realised that this toy is so much more than just a G Spot toy. This has turned into one of my favourite toys. I know I’m ruining the rest of the review by telling you that already but it really is. Anyway let’s move onto that experience section… I also like that the Wand doesn’t have any vibration. It requires you to do all the work, and kinda forces you to slow down and take your time. Sometimes the efficiency of a standard vibrator can encourage lazy yet rushed masturbation. The Wand is such a nice change of pace, and you’ll realize after the first use that the payoff is so worth it.