The Cowgirl is covered in easy-clean PU upholstery and is built to hold up to 400 pounds. It has a 10-foot cord that is modeled off high-end music equipment. You don’t need to do anything fancy like spelling the alphabet or going at it like a high-speed washing machine. Go gently and slowly and see what works. Be prepared to multi-task The receiver of a rim job should make sure to bathe first. You can incorporate this into your foreplay, by hopping into the shower together and soaping each other down. If a shower isn’t logistically possible, at the very least, do a thorough cleaning with a wet wipe. If you’re really anxious about cleanliness, you can use an enema to clean yourself out beforehand. But this is a pretty intense step that really isn’t necessary. Only do it if it will help you relax enough to enjoy the rimming.

If you and your partner are enjoying your rimming adventure, try squeezing their cheeks and pulling them wider apart. This will expose even more area for you to work with, and feels great for your partner. Take it to the next levelYou’re really only limited here by your imagination. Plus the chair is easy to assemble and then take apart again for storage. It’s built to hold up to 300 pounds. Use your breath. Blow warm air onto the anus and the skin surrounding it, or just hover above and breathe against it. Making the world’s finest pig play furniture is all we do. It’s not a hobby or a side business. It’s our job year-round. And that’s what makes us better at it than anyone else. Positioning furniture can help take the strain off of your body and enable you to try positions you might not be able to otherwise. That could be something as simple as a cushion to support your spine and reduce your pain or something more involved like a sex bench to hold limbs in place. My colleague sex educator and researcher Reid Mihalko likes to open with the phrase, 'I have an idea!' [when bringing up a new sex act with a partner] which helps set the stage for a low-pressure chat. Share what you want (giving or receiving), what about it turns you on, and if you have any requests or boundaries. The other person should have the opportunity to share their thoughts as well."

Don't let the health risks put you off – if you want to try rimming, there are steps you can take to make the activity as safe as possible and still have a great time, as outlined by Dr Dapre: 1. Preparation is key Since the rectum doesn’t self-lubricate, you’ll need to keep the area nice and wet. Make sure to use plenty of saliva. If you like, you can also use a flavored lube designed for oral sex. If you’re using protection, make sure to get it wet under and on top of your barrier. This will help transmit the sensation better, making the barrier feel less barrier-like. The basicsUsing barrier methods, such as dental dams, can significantly reduce the risks of catching or passing anything on. Dental dams, for those who are not familiar, are sheets of latex that can be used on genitals to protect against STIs and infections. 4. Douche in advance It says the chair includes an adapter so you can attach your favorite toys but I’m not seeing images of what that looks like. If you have long hair around your bum, you need to be extra, extra careful when cleaning your bum. If you’re not opposed to hair removal, it may be worth removing the hair around your bumhole pre-rimming session.

Preparation around cleanliness is down to the individual and what both partners are comfortable with. Some people don’t do any cleaning at all beforehand (after all, butt holes are not inherently dirty and you wouldn’t spend ages cleaning before any other kind of oral sex!) and some people like a bit of sweat down there. Discuss what the two of you would prefer, and make your own rules. How to eat assOne thing to consider is its size. It’s has a roughly two feet by three feet footprint and this is not the type of thing that folds flat when not in use. You have to have space to dedicate to it, but if you’re building a home dungeon, it certainly has an intimidating look to it. Use things that are designed for anal pleasure, like vibrating butt plugs, anal beads, or a prostate stimulating massager," Manta says. This is really important, as most sex toy related injuries stem from people inserting a foreign object that wasn’t designed for anal play into their butt. This includes vaginal sex toys — do not put those in your bum! And because you’ve never stopped evolving, neither have we. Thanks to your suggestions and the imaginations of our kinky creative staff, our product line keeps growing and improving. Today we make a whole host of rim seats, sex benches, slings and accessories to complement our frames. It comes with a realistic TPE toy (not silicone so could be better but if you’re not sharing it, that’s not the end of the world). The toy has five inches of insertable length and a diameter of 1.5 inches. And if you’re not quite sure what that means, EdenFantasys has one of my favorite features of all time where you can view the item in Real Size by adjusting the size of the item to fit a scaled image held up to your screen like a US dollar and credit card.

As always these stools are good for expanding positions as one partner can lay underneath while the other sides for all sorts of fun activities. The straps have great give to them so you can get a good bounce on without straining your knees.Just as you would with oral sex on a vagina or penis, keep communication open throughout the act with your partner, asking them what they’re enjoying and what’s not working for them, and adapt your approach depending on their response. How to spice things up Once you’re an ass eating pro, you might want to try new ways to spice the act up —especially if you’re not using rimming as a precursor to anal sex. For this, we can add good old sex toys into the mix. Rinse your mouth. If you didn't use oral protection, make sure you swish with mouthwash or antiseptic afterwards to sanitize the area. Plus, no one wants ass-breath. For more substantial pieces you'll need a dedicated spot or be willing to stash them in a closet or other storage area.