While the type of play I typically engage in doesn't involve physical danger, if I were to accidentally transgress, I do absolutely honor limits. I take some time at the start to go over a client’s limits, then monitor them closely throughout the scene. While you might find it humiliating to play with gender and step into feminine roles, it doesn’t mean that it is humiliating to explore femininity. Perhaps we go on a girl’s shopping trip, do a boudoir photoshoot, get our make up done for a night out on the town, or maybe I turn you into my little slut. The possibilities are endless. I also enjoy playing with gender with my NB and women clients as well. There is so much to explore in kink with feminization, crossdressing and gender play. Absolutely. Ideally, I would be friends with all my clients. I am there to open them up to the most sensitive and vulnerable part of themselves—there's a lot of trust and emotional closeness that is built. Some people want more than I can give—whether it's time, attention or specific acts—and in these instances I need to strongly enforce my boundaries, which makes it more difficult to have a friendship.

There is no typical client. I see couples, women, CEOs, Uber drivers, married guys, virgins. There’s the client who saves up for six months to have a session that means the world to him and the client who just needs a thrill on his lunch break. It runs the gamut. You do not know that these are fantasies. I know personally of a lot of couples where the partner fully accepts and embraces the new life of their loved one, and this story is not different from those. I think we owe our fellow members to take what they say at face value. Sure, we can disagree with their opinions and arguments, but we ought to listen to what they tell us. I’ve always identified as a dominant woman, long before I was sexually aware, it was just who I was. I believe this was partially due to being raised in a very matriarchal family. When I played house with my classmates I would always make the boy play as the dog instead of the father. I also run beginner and advanced sharps play workshops - if you are interested in hosting one of these, please get in touch.One of my most loyal and thoughtful submissives just bought me a new car. He offered me any car I wanted and I chose one that fits my personal life instead of one that you would imagine a famous dominatrix driving. It’s a minivan. It breaks all stereotypes and is perfect.

If deemed worthy, you can look forward to unparalleled sessions where we explore the darkest recesses of your mind. Having been educated at private-school in the Home Counties, my mind is a devious smorgasbord of intrigue, with an acerbic wit to match. This is not to say that she is just wearing the clamps. She also has on a nice corset and long line bra and girdle panties. And a skirt with nice shirt.) And still there is more.Ultimate Adventure* —You get the “getting started” activities, your choice of one (of the two) extra long assignments, your choice of four (of the seven) long assignments, your choice of three (of the five) events and as many of the punishments you would like. Also, since you don’t always know where you want to go, after receiving the activities, you can exchange any three of your activities for others.

Someone came to me and wanted to do an interrogation scene in which they would be tortured to get the information out of them. His fantasy was to refuse and be blindfolded and shot! He was surprised when I agreed. We did the interrogation scene and I finally told him he would be executed if he did not tell me what I wanted to know. He wouldn’t, so I put him up on a St. Andrews Cross and shot him with a paintball gun. The red ink splattered on his chest and he loved it. He later shared that he had asked many others, and all refused. Sometimes you have to be inventive and have an open mind to fulfill someone’s fantasy. A safe sharp policy is STRICTLY enforced, and depending on pre-existing medical conditions, you may be refused.

I would have to say that I don’t have much patience for newbies who do not understand the protocol of how to communicate respectfully and professionally with a dominatrix. A professional dominatrix is skilled at applying the right kind of pain that can make her masochistic, submissive client cry out in pleasure. There’s a common misconception that BDSM is always about pain, but it’s really about the sensations. You might be surprised to learn that a profession technically classified as “sex work” does not involve any actual sex. Sure, you can go online and find someone who will gladly take your money, slap you around a bit and then have sex with you—but that’s not a service provided by a dominatrix. A truly professional and experienced dominatrix is more like a guide through the less accessible sexual pleasure that some men—and women—find in the acts of submission or masochism, both in and out of a dungeon. This is why most sessions with a pro-domme (professional dominatrix) are carefully thought out and planned beforehand by the mistress to make sure they are uniquely tailored to, and enjoyed by, each particular sub. Will they be pouring into her diaper? (She is wearing two large diapers plus two diaper inserts. They will surely hold a great deal and the plastic panties and bloomers will ensure that there are no leaks.) I love inflicting pain, both physical and mental, and am a sadist through and through. My favorite sorts of play are corporal punishment, medical play, CBT and ballbusting, nipple torture and heavy degradation scenes. I enjoy this sort of play because it draws these insane reactions out of the subs that make the session so memorable.

It is, unfortunately, more unusual to see women than men. This is changing, and women are becoming more empowered to call upon sex workers to explore their fantasies. I had an interesting experience wherein a straight woman booked a session with me because she wanted to be dominated but felt safer with a woman than a male dominant, either hired or found online. I think that’s smart and savvy, and we had an amazing scene. Seeing a dominatrix isn’t necessarily about sex or sexual identity, it’s about submission, or masochism, or catharsis, and I love being able to take women to those places as well as men. I was up at 6:00 AM yesterday, dressed and ready for my assignment, and 24 hours later I’m tired, I’m wet, I’m in desperate need of a shower, and I’m ready for this week’s assignment to be over. I’m just crossing my fingers that I can get off this easy for next week’s assignment as well. I can always hope, can’t I? For each activities, along with the the instructions on how to complete it successfully, you will receive a history of the activities in the sorority—how it came to be and why it continues to be used. Given the amount of planning and work required to set up these activities, tributes are required. But it is known to happen. I have heard to many crossdreamer stories about childhood feminization to believe this it is not happening. I doubt very much that this is causing them to become crossdreamers, though, as most MTF crossdreamers have not been feminized as kids. For some reason, it is the female family members who seem to be the most ardent "feminizers" of young boys – dressing them up as girls. I have no idea why this is so. But to me this is a violation of the child's trust. Crossdressing and playing with gender is one of my favorite ways to explore power and taboo in a BDSM context. In a session with me, there is space to explore the expansiveness of your gender. To ask yourself, what does it feel to be called a good girl, a good boy, a good pet While many people utilize crossdressing as a humiliating activity, I prefer stepping into the role of an older sister or babysitter, allowing and encouraging you to explore your feminine side. “Don’t you want to join my sleepover party? Let me do your makeup. You’ll look so pretty, I promise.” Crossdressing doesn’t have to be humiliating, but I am happy to tease you about your humiliation if you are!I started pro-domming while I was still a grad student here in LA. Much of my work in the field of art had to do with power dynamics, objectification, voyeurism and exhibitionism, so although I was always been interested in BDSM as a type of eroticized power exchange, I had a hard time giving myself permission to explore it in my personal life. I usually am available in my office between 11am and 4pm and I will expect the tribute when you arrive as part of your penance for you misdemeanors. All levels catered for. My favorite implements are my floggers and my singletail whips. I have the ability to play very light and sensual or heavy and sadistic if the person I am playing with wishes. Most people do not understand impact play, they think it’s about the pain, but that’s not always the case. Lambskin floggers are soft and sensual, and a person getting flogged experiences a sensation similar to a massage.