The first time he has to cum when I say, if he cums a second earlier, he goes back in the cage for an undisclosed amount of time or I may just ruin his next orgasm until he learns. She must have suspected something about my interest because sometimes she took advantage of my submissive side. This time would have been demanding enough but my young roommate Laura mercilessly used the lockdown to make me her chastity slave. Laura was already standing in the doorway with a big grin on her face, just saying, “Let me see the cage. If he breaks the rules, like cumming before I allow him to, I add time, sometimes I get a little cruel, and to prove a point I add weeks for small things that he does (the power just goes to my head).

I set a goal, sometimes it’s just a minimum lock-up time and sometimes it’s the full amount and then I put one of these plastic locksin place to secure him in (if I’m going to be going on away for a few days) or I use a real padlock if I’m with him during the lockup period. We were both open to pretty much everything and as soon as I locked him in, I felt myself falling effortlessly into the dominant femdom role almost 24/7. When he finally cums it lasts for minutes, his orgasm seems never-ending and the amount of cum is literally a cup full. All you need to do is ask your man if he will try edging his orgasm ( orgasm control), communicate, and let him know what you plan to do. First, I had to take a cold shower, otherwise it would not have been possible to put the chastity cage on.We like to lock him up on a time scale, for instance, once he’s inside of his cock cage, he knows he will have to wait 2 weeks before we can even discuss his release date. If you want to start seeing what it’s like to own your man’s orgasm, you can do it without any sex toys.

But, if he is good, he gets good stars and can have days taken off, although this is quite rare for me to do unless his behavior is exceptional. Then I started spanking him, using ropes, got him into dirty talk, and then one night I fingered his ass and almost instantly pegging and chastity came hand in hand once he realized how incredible it was. Start slow, jerk him off and get him to the edge, let this happen for a few hours before finally letting him cum and if it goes well, slowly begin adding more time and then think about introducing chastity devices. For us, it was really important to find a chastity device that wasn’t going to hurt him or make him uncomfortable.My husband also loves losing complete control of his cock, knowing I am now responsible for all pleasure and am in total control of his manhood makes him weak at the knees. I love seeing him dripping cum from his little cage, desperate to be let out, I love the way the cage barely fits him, I love how he goes from being a big, strong man into my play toy.