There are a couple of ways depending on the type of springs on the door, and the type of weather seal. Teachers and principals did NOT bare their bottoms and spank them then, I can guarantee you, and they do NOT do it now. My partner really enjoy smacking my bottom during sex, and used to make various odd comments whilst doing so.

The other example in 'Stories For Bedtime' was in an old favourite of mine, 'One Little Match' where two naughty pixie friends try to make real smoke come from their toy engine's funnel, and subsequently set fire to it, the curtains and the lampshade. According to Dr Becky Spelman, a psychologist and clinical director of the Private Therapy Clinic, the reason for our appreciation is both physical and emotional. We boys preferred the cane to other innovative forms of punishment such as writing out boring essays or being asked to stand on the bench or missing soccer practice. Mummy noticed straight away that the herring bone pattern on the rubber imprinted itself on those wonderous globes of bright red flesh! Whilst this was happening, Mummy went to the cupboard under the stairs, to take out the right footed, size nine slipper.We and our partners use data for Personalised ads and content, ad and content measurement, audience insights and product development. Meanwhile, Damon*, 29, is the exact opposite – he hates being spanked, but will happily administer a slap or two across someone else’s bottom. I think mum was actually quite depressed when we were kids - she wasn't maternal at all, but she's amazing with my kids and in a way this makes me really sad. He expected good behaviour at all times, table manners and politeness, no arguing or answering back. Suddenly, I was over her knee and being given a thoroughly smacked bottom, and the sting of it remains in my mind 50 years later.

But in modern civilisations, these types of punishments barely even exist in families anymore, in the comfort of their houses, so I can guarantee you that these do not happen at school, or there would be a lot of teachers in jail right now. Fact is you've already made the choice, rich and poor should never have entered the question " IF" . A 3-year old was screaming, "I want that toy" for about ten minutes, his mother then dragged him out, and you could still hear him screaming way in the distance. There’s nothing wrong with either one, so long as it’s completely consensual, and we recommend talking it through with your sexual partner if you’re going towards the particularly painful end of the spectrum.In the first few weeks, he told me that he really loved me but now he says he doesn't think he did love me after all – and doesn't miss me.